Staying motivated is a combination of
internal and external factors that stimulate a desire to be
continually interested and committed to attain a goal.
No matter what your situation is,
staying motivated and hungry for success is perhaps one of the biggest
challenges ever. To me motivation is considered as a form of
behaviour and the impulse to react towards challenging situations.
The winners are the ones who have
relentless power so great, that they make sure they don’t miss a day of
motivation. In the end you’ll realise that motivation is a sense of freedom
created by making key decisions for a better tomorrow.
Below are the 6 keys to staying motivated:
1. What’s your
why?
The purpose, cause, or belief that
inspires you to do what you do! Knowing your why is an important
first step in creating a life you enjoy living. Quite often it is a
discovery in finding out who you really are by gaining a much deeper insight
into your talents, skills, passion and values.
Questions to help you discover your why:
1.
What makes you come alive? What is your passion? A
passion so powerful that makes you touch and inspire others bringing you
satisfaction and fulfilment.
2.
What are your strengths? This should be a reflex
response; an innate ability that helps you adapt in any challenging situation.
Skills are developed by hours and hours of beating on your craft.
3.
How do you measure life? All the success you
have gained. Is it just accumulation? How do you bring value to life? do you
use your success to help others or help change the world?
What then is the ultimate why? Is it to
be the best human being? How do you want to be remembered to the future
generation?
2. A vision
A vision helps us
create what does not exist and seeing beyond the present
reality. When we’re looking to define a vision, we conjure a bold statement
that inspires us and drives us to want to get up every day to achieve it. Many
successful organizations have been built on a vision or idea enabling them to
incorporate strategies to achieve their goals.
Therefore having a vision is like
a compass providing you with initiative in which
direction to go. Your vision will therefore open doors of opportunities to a
brighter future. If you really want a life that is better, happier you will
intuitively make changes that are necessary for you to reach that life. Without
clarity you will find yourself drifting aimlessly from task to task
without an understanding of what bonds the individuals actions together and or
the value created by the individual actions.
When you go through tough times your
vision will help you overcome obstacles in life and will help you explain why
you began in the first place. Therefore a vision is a powerful
driving force giving you momentum to push away at resisting
factors. Ask yourself where you see yourself in 5 years. How confidently would
you be able to answer that question or how true to your statement will you be?
Why then does it become difficult to answer this question?
The reason is because the lack of a well-defined
vision and setting limits on ourselves. Anything is possible within a vision.
When you construct your vision, why not vision big? Be creative and inventive
in your vision. The sooner you take action the quicker you’ll be living your
vision. Your vision maybe blurred at first but in time it becomes clearer as you
work to make it come together.
3. Be positive
Our perceptions of reality, how we
think about ourselves and the world around us, what we look for and what we
take to be true are determined by our beliefs.
What you think is what you become. Throughout life we have all faced setbacks
and challenges having received advice from that close friend who often says “stay
positive.” There are times where I’ve been upset that
things aren’t working the way I want them to and it became hard to bear.
Therefore the first thing I ever did
was to constantly work on self-development step by step enabling me to be more
confident in acquiring my goals even during the rough times. Everything
happens for a reason and this is one of the simplest ways to acknowledge
a negative situation and to move forward from it. Of course it
takes time to process thoughts before you can move on. Believe in yourself and
be brave enough to ask yourself what is the one good thing about this situation
and what opportunity does this situation provide.
This will enable you to face failures
and to look for solutions thus stimulating change from within. Choose positive
affirmations such as “I am going to handle whatever comes my way”, “I’m
getting better every day”, and “I am going to get there no matter what”.
Whilst everybody is wishing, hoping, waiting, you’re fighting for what you
want. Remind yourself of the countless blessings because there are so many
beautiful reasons to be happy; your family, friends, your faith, your work.
This cycle of reminding yourself in times of hardship will help you see the
world in a different way and keep you going.
4. The right
people
Why do we need them or what do we
search for when surrounding ourselves with the “right people?” Ultimately we
look for guidance and help in achieving our goals. As humans
we constantly give and receive energy so it is important to be free of negative energy.
Spending time with family, friends and successful, like-minded people,
revitalises you and recharges your batteries.
Every time you spend time with the right people,
explore their mind-set by engaging in stimulating conversations; extract
valuable information that you can take away. As I progressed in life I took on
positive traits of my role models making me the strong person I am today. I admired
my role models for their professionalism and work ethic gathering words of
advice. Visualizing them as a template for my success, translating their words
into action. So begin with asking the right questions making you feel more
confident and motivated in going further than you could of have imagined.
Staying committed to the ones who
support and encourage us to reach our goals is a special relationship key
to your motivation that often breaks when we feel that we have not
spent time with people who matter to us most. Now the nightmarish people:
filter out the negative energy from people who cannot seem to accept your
ambition. I simply stay away as far as I can from negative people because I am
allergic to them. I don’t despise negative and miserable people; I see them as
people who I do not want to be; in fact they push me to be a better person.
5. The plan
In reality we cannot foresee everything
and sometimes we strain ourselves by trying to achieve perfection in planning
for a desired result. You can’t plan for every possible turn of
events, but you can be well prepared to handle the majority of them.
Therefore one must remain flexible and work to adapt to unexpected
situations. Eliminate the
doubts in your mind because manifesting your vision is based on
plan that takes time and patience.
Challenge yourself in applying a
consistent and controlled approach to your goals even on a daily routine. This
trains your mind in figuring out ways to make adjustments that will
eventually pay off. If the plan does not work, don’t change the goal
because it doesn’t mean that you are not worthy of it so alter the plan. A
plan is useless without action, so develop the impetus to push
yourself mentally and use all tools at hand to develop a strategy to break down
both short term and long term goals into manageable tasks.
6. The promise
No one can do it but you, this is the
reality now. Looking at yourself in the mirror and making it your personal
responsibility to live to the best of your potential. You
must have the urge to constantly believe that there is something out there
better for you and you must work towards that dream. Don’t be too hard on
yourself just because you have made bad decisions thus it is important to teach
yourself to learn from mistakes and make the effort to grow.
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