Motivation is often cited as the magical answer to everything you want. If you were motivated you would lose that weight, write that book, and start the business and so on.
So how do we develop the habits and
mind power needed to stay motivated on a daily
basis?
Here is are 5 Step Process to Develop Life Long Motivation.
But, here’s a question:
What if motivation never strikes?
What are you going to do then?
Is Motivation The Solution?
I often hear people say “if I could
just find the motivation to…”
Within these words is an implication. The
implication is that motivation is the solution to your problems.
If you were motivated you would pay off that debt,
find a new job, and go back to school.
But what if that’s not the case?
What if motivation isn’t the solution?
What if motivation is a consequence of
the actions you take?
What Came First: The Motivation or The Action?
I believe that there is a dance between motivation
and action. The two of them work together to ignite each other.
Who makes the first move?
The first step?
Who leads the dance?
Let’s get practical: What
is easier to do in the next five minutes: find incredible motivation or take
action?
Motivation isn’t something that can be summoned
upon demand. But action… that’s a different beast.
Right now, can you take step 1 to get what you want
in your life?
In case you don’t know the answer: It’s “yes”. You
can take action right now.
Want to write a book? Write
page 1.
Want to lose weight? Go
on a run.
Want to find a new job? Send
out your resume.
So we know that action is easier to take than to
find motivation.
But within all of this another questions looms:
Is motivation a consequence of your actions, or are
your actions a consequence of your motivation?
The Misunderstanding of
Motivation
The unfortunate misunderstanding of motivation is
that you must be motivated to achieve what you want.
Yes, motivation is wonderful. It feels good and
gets us excited. But motivation can be fickle. It’s here one day and gone the
next.
I believe there are 2 types of motivation:
There is short term
motivation and long term motivation.
Short term motivation is shallow, fickle, and
vulnerable to the ebbs and sways of daily life.
Long term motivation is neither fickle nor shallow.
It’s not vulnerable to the economy, the news, the “experts”, or anything in the
outside world.
It’s a deep lasting motivation. It’s internal. You
feel it deep in your soul.
I call this lifelong motivation.
Which brings us to a question?
How can you develop lifelong
motivation?
The 5 Step Process to Develop Life Long Motivation
Below I share with you the 5 step process to
develop lifelong motivation.
Step 1: Identify and Write Down Exactly What You Want
Above all else you must identify your purpose. You
must know why you were put on this earth.
When you know exactly where you want to go, it
plants the seed for lifelong motivation.
Here’s a great exercise to start gaining clarity on
where you want to go in your life:
Take out a piece of paper and get ready to write.
Imagine 5 years have passed. Everything you have wanted to accomplish has
happened.
What is your day like?
What activities do you do?
What relationships do you have?
How do you make money?
How much money do you make?
How do you feel?
What are your hobbies?
Write. Write. And write some more.
Step 2: Write Down Why
You Want It
Knowing what you want is the first step, but
knowing why you want it feeds your motivation.
Basically you’re establishing a purpose for your
purpose.
So look over your 5 year vision. Then write down
your response to this question:
Why do you want to achieve this vision?
What impact will it have on your life if you fulfil this vision?
Step 3: Develop the
Step by Step Plan
A killer of motivation is ambiguity, or a lack of
knowledge.
Therefore to nurture motivation you need to gain
knowledge and establish clarity.
A critical part of gaining clarity is to identify
the specific steps you must take to fulfill your vision.
Look at your 5 year vision. Begin to write out the
specific steps that you will need to take to fulfil that vision. Don’t make
this difficult. You aren’t going to know all the steps. But you will know some
of them.
Develop the plan. It doesn’t have to be perfect,
but it’s got to be something.
By creating this plan you have created a map to
start working with.
Step 4: Take Action on
Step 1
So you have put together the plan to fulfil your
vision. Now is when the rubber hits the road.
You need to take action on step 1.
You have identified exactly where you want to go,
why the vision matters, and the plan to fulfil the vision.
Now, take the first step to make it happen.
This brings an alignment between your daily actions
and where you want to go over the long term.
This brings meaning and purpose to each day… Which
is fuel for lifelong motivation?
Step 5: Reflect Then
Adjust
After about 1 week take a look at the actions you
have taken. Reflection allows you to learn from your experiences and to
increase the rate at which you achieve what you want.
Basically, this allows you to constantly learn and
grow as you move forward. As you learn and grow you will become the person you
need to be to fulfil your vision.
Look at the actions you took over the course of the
previous week and answer these 3 questions:
What actions are moving you towards
your 5 year vision? Keep doing those.
What actions are preventing you from
achieving your 5 year vision? Stop doing those.
What is 1 action you can start taking
this week to accelerate you towards achieving your vision? Immediately
implement this.
Remember: a
huge killer of motivation is a lack of knowledge. When you feel like you’re
just running on a treadmill it kills your motivation. By taking the time to
step back and assess your actions and plans you are providing fuel for your
motivation.
Above All Else: Take Action
Here’s the simple reality, you can spend a lifetime
waiting for motivation to strike… and it might never happen.
But right now, this moment, you can take action.
As you can see with the steps above when you take
action, you give yourself the opportunity to gain motivation.
I’ll end this with a quote:
“You
are much more likely to act your way into feeling, rather than feel your way
into acting”.
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